November 1, 2022

Mackay Moves to San Clemente

After leaving my Dad on Monday September 5th, we drove to St. George.
We left St. George Tuesday morning and drove to San Clemente California and moved Mackay into his new apartment. He has a job at Nike and was planning to just work for several months. 
 

While driving Mackay reached out to several Jr. College basketball teams and was able to try out for a few. He ultimately chose Golden West College. 
After traveling home for my Dad's funeral, headed back to start practices to be ready for the season.
Unfortunately, Mackay had an incident on September 23rd.
After two ambulance rides, two hospitals, several doctor appointments with several specialist, they finally ruled out a stroke, blood clot, and detached retina.    



He didn't get cleared to play until end of October.
Frustrated but understanding the situation, he decided to REDSHIRT.
He is finishing classes online and working.





 

October 30, 2022

Mediterranean Cruise

 Iconic Mediterranean Cruise



Thursday: travel


Friday: Travel^ & board ship(dinner)


Saturday: Barcelona 79° ðŸŒ¥

Iconic Barcelona moderate 12:30-4:30


Sunday: Montpellier 73° ðŸŒ§am

Montpellier & chateau moderate+ 8:30-1:30


Monday: Marseille 77° ☁️

Scenic Marseille easy 8:45-11:45


Tuesday: Monte Carlo 72°ðŸŒ¤

Nice Eze & Monte Carlos 8:45-4:45 pm


Wednesday: Florence/Pisa 76°ðŸŒ¥

From Tuscany to Pisa moderate 8:45-12:45


Thursday: Florence/Pisa 77° ⛅️ 7-5pm


Friday: Rome 78° ðŸŒ¥

Disembark 8 AM


Saturday: Rome 78°ðŸŒ¥

Vatican tour 7:30 am 

Underground ancient Rome 1:25 pm


Sunday: travel 


October 2, 2022

Aaron's Mom Unexpectedly Passes Away

 Janice Kay Nielsen Marecek passed away peacefully in her Reno, Nevada home on Sunday, October 2, 2022 at the age of 72. She was born on May 6, 1950 in Butte, Montana to Hollis Dell and Betty Lou Nielsen. She graduated from Sparks High School and went on to graduate from the St Mary’s Hospital LPN Program.


Janice married Tom Hall (later divorced) in 1971. Together they raised four children: Brad, Aaron and Amy (twins) and Ryan. In 2003, she married her eternal companion, Hans Marecek. They were sealed in 2015 in the Reno Nevada LDS temple. She was an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and served in many positions, her favorite being primary pianist.


Janice worked as a nurse and loved those who she cared for, particularly the elderly and newborns. She was truly beautiful on the inside and out. She enjoyed fashion, makeup, jewelry, playing the piano and dressing up to attend the local dances with her husband. She loved traveling with Hans, especially to his beloved hometown of Vienna, Austria. 


Janice is preceded in death her parents. 

She is survived by her husband, Hans, children, Bradley Hall, Aaron Hall (Dawn), Amy Massaro, Ryan Hall (Stacy), sister Jeanette Brooks (Marty), sister Jeri Coty, and brother Kurtis Nielsen (Tierra). She leaves a legacy of 9 grandchildren and 5 great-grandchildren.



She will be missed by her family and friends.

September 17, 2022

My Dad's Funeral Talk

 Dad’s Funeral Talk

GOD'S PLAN FOR HIS CHILDREN


Intro:


My dads first love was Family - his sweetheart and his children. The next was his Faith. And I’m pretty sure right after that would be Music. 


I feel lucky my daughter Kenzie was able to develop a close relationship with her grandpa because of music. He was her biggest fan and her greatest mentor. 


As a missionary my dad got to travel his beloved England singing with a group of missionaries who became lifelong friends. Together they created the most beautiful version of one of his favorite hymns - Come Come Ye Saints. He loved the lyrics of this song and always sang it with meaning and conviction.


Come, come, ye Saints, no toil nor labor fear

But with joy wend your way

Though hard to you this journey may appear

Grace shall be as your day


Although this recent journey with my dad and especially this week and today feels hard, we feel joy and rejoice in the sweet reunion that is taking place in heaven. 


I. Missions bonded us.


Growing up  I had a lot in common with my mom. We were both blonde haired, blue eyed ballerinas. People would often say, “you look just like your mom” or “you’re a little Kathy Bean”.  It was the Best compliment.  


My dad was brilliant and obedient and driven and- I was not. But when I turned 21, I decided to serve mission for our church. It was the first time, I felt I had something in common with my dad.  Our missions created a special bond between us.

Although my mom was a very spiritual and religious person, it was my dad that helped me understand the gospel. My dad taught me the importance of studying and “digging deep” into spiritual things. I inherited my mom’s blind faith but my dad taught me to learn my religion and gain a testimony for myself. He taught me to depend on the spirit, to develop the “art of conversation” and to seek out the “honest in heart”.   


Every lesson or talk I have ever prepared was always proof-read and approved by him. I will always cherish the times I spent learning from him and talking about gospel truths. His testimony was strong. He loved his Savior Jesus Christ. He especially loved being a missionary and sharing the joy the gospel brings. So today, I would like to honored him by giving a talk HE helped prepare many years ago.


II. Death is Precious


The night before Jesus was crucified, he gathered with his disciples. The scriptures say they sang a hymn just before they left for the Garden of Gethsemane. Part of that hymn includes this phrase: 


“Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his Saints.” (Ps. 116:15). 


The word “precious" is defined as: of great value or highly esteemed or cherished.


By singing this hymn, Jesus put a divine benediction on the doctrine that the death of a good person is highly esteemed or cherished by the Lord. 


This provides us with a very different perspective on death. We are born to die. Death is a necessary step in our progression, a rite of passage. In the Lord's eyes, and in our family’s eyes, we know that my dad’s death was the crowning achievement of his mortal life - it is surely a day precious unto God. 


Similar perspective is found in Doctrine and Covenants 42 where the Lord stated:


" And it shall come to pass that those who die in me shall not taste of death, for it shall be sweet unto them." (D&C 42:45-47).


When my dad breathed his last breath, his spirit separated from his body. I know this was a great relief to him since his body was tired and terribly weakened by his illness.


The body is important - but it is not our dad, grandpa, or great- grandpa. His body was a shell in which his spirit resided. His spirit is the thinking, feeling, eternally alive part of him. His spirit is perfect in appearance and form. At the moment of death, my dad stepped out of his mortal body and continued on to live in a different setting much like moving from one room to another.


As he entered the spirit world, I know he was undoubtedly met by his sweetheart, my mom - he was reunited with his parents, his sister, and other loved ones. This was a time of welcoming and happiness.


III. Spirit World


The spirit world is on this earth but we can't see it. There have been some people who have been permitted to glimpse momentarily into the spirit world, so we know some things about it.


We know that it is similar to this mortal sphere in many respects. My dad is happy to be moving forward and to be progressing. He is in a part of the spirit world called Paradise - where he is able to rest from the cares of the world and where he has overcome the tests of mortality (Alma 40:11-12). 


In my dad’s final moments, we watched him struggle to let go and even witnessed tears stream from his eyes as we, his children, gathered around him.  We know he felt some sadness to leave us behind and to be apart from us. But he now has an advantage that tempers this sadness. 

We know he can sometimes see us and be close. But because he also has important things to do, he can't spend all of his time looking in on us. While he will be busy doing many good deeds in the spirit world, I know at those special and necessary moments in our lives - moments when he surely would have been there in mortality - he will be there in spirit. 


He will be praying for us and he will be concerned when we are struggling. He will rejoice in our greatest triumphs, and he will ache with us in our greatest defeats. He is every bit as much a part of our family unit there in the spirit world, as he was here.


IV. Resurrection and Falling Short


In a very real sense, the death of a good person is like passing the final test on the last day of school. My dad is no longer being tested. He no longer has to suffer adversity, disease, temptation, discouragement, sadness and grief. He is at peace and has overcome the world. He will continue to learn, to grow and progress until the day of the resurrection, when his spirit will be reunited with a glorified and perfected, resurrected body.


All of us will be resurrected. We can merit all of the blessings of God, even though we are not perfect when we die. God is a God of mercy and will judge each of us according to the desires of our heart. He knows our struggles and the burdens we bear. He’ll judge us according to our thoughts, intents, and abilities; and He, in his infinite wisdom, will make all things right in due course. 


Conclusion:


I know these principles and doctrines are true. I know it with all my heart. My dad taught me and I have the assurance of these things that comes from the Holy Ghost.


I know the coming days, weeks, and years will be difficult. While time will heal this pain of separation, it will never go away. We will always miss our dad. But I hope we will be blessed with the knowledge that we will be reunited with our mom and dad and that we will be a family eternally. 


And in those lonely moments when we need it most, we will feel our parents love, sense they are nearby, and have the assurance they are still very much a part of our lives.


I know we will lean on each other. We will strive to follow our dad’s example and be obedient. We will take care of each other and we will rely on our faith. I know as we  “do this and joy … our hearts will swell - (and we will know) all is well- all is well.” 

July 30, 2022

Taylor's Baby Shower

 Letter to Tay


Grandma Kathy’s last calling was Compassionate Service. At night, when she sat down with Grandpa Earl to watch TV, she would sew baby blankets. She was creating a gift to give the young new mothers in her ward. When she got sick, she gave all the blankets to the Relief Society President so she could continue to give them away. 


I knew my mom’s time on earth was coming to an end and I felt a sense of panic. I desperately wanted to bottle up her love and influence so when I needed her, I would have her. 


One night I had an overwhelming feeling to go and get those blankets she had made. Per tradition, Grandma Kathy made a blanket for each one of her grandchildren. My brothers Adam & Josh had yet to have kids. I needed those blankets for my brothers’ babies, the grandchildren my mom would never meet on this earth. I felt it would be a little gift from heaven from Grandma Kathy. 


With her permission, I got those blankets back. Every grandchild has received their own blanket made by Grandma Kathy. 


Soon you will have a little piece of heaven join your family. I know Grandma Kathy won’t miss that special day. She will be there as you welcome your little girl into this world. So here is one of those special blankets, chosen, sewn, even wrapped by Grandma Kathy. I hope each time you wrap Pepper up in this gift, you will smile and know how much my mom loved you and loved your little girl. 

______________________________________



This small gift is a gift from Grandpa Earl. Becoming a mom is the greatest blessings you will ever experience. He wanted you to have something of Grandma Kathy’s for this special time in your life. xoxo 


July 27, 2022

Caribbean Cruise with the Kids

 ðŸŒ´Caribbean Cruise

20% off next cruise due to noise above our room 

Flights $

Hotel $points

Cruise $

Rental Car $750

Airport parking $214


Tuesday:  Travel

Airport treats $29

Salt grass Steakhouse $165


Wednesday:  Get on boat

Walmart $74

Internet on boat $650

Parking at cruise terminal $93


Thursday:   Sea Day

Deodorant $10


Friday:  Beach costa maya (Kenz sick) 

Sandals $30

Lunch at Costa Maya $54

Taxi $25


Saturday:  Beach Cozumel (Aaron & Kenz sick)

Snorkel gear $10

Meds $7

Family photos $75


Sunday:  Sea Day (Aaron sick)

Laundry $10


Monday:  Travel 

McDonald’s $37

Madewell $96

July 10, 2022

Young Women's Lesson on Prophets

Prophets


Intro: Relay Service/Prophet

Example of relay service... deaf person calling a hearing... 

compare to how Heavenly Father, tells Prophet, Prophet tells us.

        Emphasize that it is Heavenly Father's message to his children told through the prophet.


I. Scripture D&C 1:38

D&C 1:38 

“Whether by mine own voice or the voice of my servant, it is the same.”


II. Scripture Story: King Benjamin

Mosiah 1-2


Apply King Benjamin to us today.  

Heavenly Father tells our prophet what he wants us to know and then our prophet tells us.  

                Our prophets tell us in special meetings like General Conference.  

                Sometimes we aren't able to actually hear the prophet, so it is written down and delivered to our homes. 


III. Why is it Important to Listen to our Prophets? 

Maze Analogy


Imagine you are in a maze that is made up of tall hedges.  The bushes are too thick to see through, too tall to see over, and you can’t tell whether you are headed towards a dead-end until you are right there. 

You start off knowing the approximate direction of where the exit is, but quickly lose your bearings and can’t do anything more that wander aimlessly until you find the correct path out.  Then you notice a little look- out tower.


You climb the tower and you can regain your bearings again and plot a path to exit.  


Apply the Maze to REAL LIFE.  

Life is similar to being in a maze.  It is easy to get caught up in the “maze of life” and focus only on that is right in front of us.  


What are some concerns that are in YOUR maze of life? 

friends, peer pressure, grades, temptations, rules, etc


There is someone we can look to who has been given the keys to be the “look-out” for our day and time.  They have the perspective of being able to see all the twists and turns in the maze and give us guidance and direction that will help us reach the finish line safely. 



IV. Different Modern Prophets

Pictures of Prophets covering picture of Christ.

        Groups of three

            1. scribe -write prophets name and guiding principle on the chalkboard

            2. share a fun fact or tidbit about that prophet

            3. share that prophet's "guiding principle" and how we can apply it to our lives today


Conclusion: TESTIMONY

My witness of Joseph Smith and Russel M Nelson

 

Although we hear the Prophets voice it is Heavenly Father's message. I know as we listen to our prophet that we will know what our Heavenly Father wants us to do.  We will find the answers we are looking for and our testimonies of the gospel and of the Savior will grow.





President Gordon B Hinckley

He was the 15th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

He has a great love and concern for all people .

Favorite hymn, “God of Our Fathers, Known of Old”; 

Favorite dessert, pie and ice cream.

Favorite quotation: ‘And now, after the many testimonies which have been given of him, this is the testimony, last of all, which we give of him: That he lives! For we saw him, even on the right hand of God; and we heard the voice bearing record that he is the Only Begotten of the Father” (Doctrine and Covenants 76:22-23).

He has traveled all over the world to meet with the Saints and to tell them that God “will shower down blessings upon those who walk in obedience to His commandments.” He has dedicated more temples than any other General Authority. 

Each Thursday morning the members of the First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles have a meeting in the Salt Lake Temple, they are driven in carts underground from the Church Office parking lot to the temple. During the cold winter months, President Hinckley always wore a coat and a hat during the brief ride. As his cart passed under Main Street, President Hinckley knew that when he was within the confines of the temple, rather than under the street and, without a word, would remove his hat and place it in his lap. He seemed to know instinctively when that moment arrived. It was such a simple yet profound expression of reverence and respect for the House of the Lord.

His guiding principle taught: DO YOUR BEST


President Thomas S. Monson

He was the 16th President of the Church

Favorite song: O Divine Redeemer

Favorite food: Turkey dinners, pies, any flavor of ice cream, chocolate 

He served in the United States Navy near the close of World War II. 

Hobbies – Raising pigeons, fishing 

Occupation – Publishing and printing 

As a teenager, he rescued a girl from drowning while swimming in the Provo River.

Can wiggle his ears.

President Monson often took the time to do small acts of service, such as visiting the gravesite of a missionary, and caring for the sick and the lonely, serving the widow and the fatherless, the poor and the oppressed.”

President Monson changed the minimum age for young men to serve LDS missions was being lowered from 19 to 18, and for young women from 21 to 19. 

He encouraging church members to be "a little kinder and more thoughtful."


President David O. McKay

He was the 9th President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

Favorite song, “O Say, What is Truth?”;

Favorite food, Cummings chocolates

Favorite expression, “True Christianity is love in action.”

He encouraged missionary work when he said; “EVERY MEMBER A MISSIONARY”.

He taught the importance of family and home by saying that having a righteous family is the best success we can have in this life. 


President Lorenzo Snow

He was the 5th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

He loved to learn.

He had many illnesses and almost drowned during a storm near Hawaii.

One time, when he was in a special room in the Salt Lake Temple, he prayed to know how to lead the Church.

“When he finished praying, he thought he would hear a voice, or have a warm feeling, or something would happen.  He waited and waited.  He left the room disappointed.

When he turned the corner into the hall, he saw Jesus standing about three feet about the floor.  He looked as though he was standing on a plate of gold.  He was wearing beautiful white robes, and his face, body and robes were so bright that it was hard to look at him.

Jesus gave Lorenzo Snow many instructions and then left.”

He taught the saints to pay their tithing and that if they did the Lord would bless them with all they needed.


President Spencer W. Kimball 

He was the 12th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Favorite song, “I Need Thee Every Hour,” 

Favorite food, date-nut bread crumbled into a glass of milk; 

Favorite quotation or a lesson from him, “Lengthen your stride.”

On his dest was a plaque with he motto “DO IT”

Under his direction, temples were build in many areas of the world. 

President Monson one time noticed one of President Kimball’s shoes had a large hole in it and said to the prophet’s secretary, Arthur Haycock, “You can’t let the President wear those shoes.” Brother Haycock said that he frequently hid those shoes, but President Kimball searched for and found that particular pair most of the time.

“President Kimball was known for his statement, ‘My life is like my shoes — to be worn out in the service of the Lord.’


President George Albert Smith

He was the 8th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

When he was young he was very poor and had to work very hard.

Favorite song: Let Us Oft Speak Kind Words

Favorite food: apple pie with a little warm milk on it; 

He helped people after WWII, who needed food and supplies.

“Starvation was rampant in Germany and in other nations of Europe. President Smith met with United States President Harry Truman and said, ‘We’d like to send welfare supplies to the starving people of Europe, but the bureaucracy and the red tape in postwar Europe are keeping us from doing so.’

President Truman heard his plea and opened the way. He asked, ‘How many months will it take for you to assemble your supplies?’

President Smith replied, ‘President Truman, they’re already assembled. All you need do is say go, and they’ll be rolling within 24 hours.’ Lives were saved as a result.” 

He was known as a peacemaker and for his compassion

He developed a creed that was a guide for his life: “I would be a friend to the friendless…I would not be an enemy to any living soul”


President Harold B Lee

He was the 11th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Favorite song, “Praise to the Man”; 

Favorite food, bread and milk; 

Favorite quotation, “Stand ye in holy places, and be not moved” (D&C 87:8).

He told the saints to hold Family Home Evening, teach their children and protect them from the temptations of the world.

He encourages the saints to be in tune with and to be responsive to the whisperings of the Holy Spirit.


President Ezra Taft Benson

He was the 13th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

He was the oldest brother of 11 kids.  

He graduated from BYU

He was the only President of the Church to have received the honor of ‘Most Preferred Man’ at BYU when he was a student there

Favorite song, “How Great Thou Art”; 

Favorite food, fresh raspberries; 

Favorite quotation: “What manner of men ought ye to be? Verily I say unto you, even as I am” (3 Nephi 27:27).

He served as  United States Secretary of Agriculture.

He loved the Book of Mormon and encouraged us all to study the Book of Mormon.


President Howard W Hunter

He was the 14th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Favorite hymn, “Have I Done Any Good in the World Today?”; 

Favorite food, Alaskan crab; 

Favorite scripture, “Let another man praise thee … and not thine own lips” (Proverbs 27:2).

He encouraged each member to live worthy to receive the blessings of the temple.

He told us to follow the example of Jesus Christ and to “treat each other with more kindness, more patience, more courtesy, and forgiveness.”

Guiding Principle:encouraging those who had strayed from the gospel to COME BACK


President John Taylor

He was the 3rd president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

He learned to make furniture.

He didn't get baptized until he was 28 years old.

He was known for defending the church and especially Joseph Smith.

He was with Joseph Smith,  in Carthage Jail, when Joseph Smith was killed.  He was shot also, but he was  wearing a jacket and in the pocket of his jacket was a watch.  The bullet hit the watch and saved President John Taylor life.


President Heber J. Grant

He was the 7th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

His dad died when he was only 5 days old.

When he was young he wanted to play baseball, but wasn't very good at throwing the ball.  The other boys would laugh at him and call him a sissy.  He shined people shoes to earn a dollar.  He bought a baseball and practiced throwing until his arm would hurt.  He ended up playing on a baseball team that won the Championship in 3 different states.

He was the first mission president in Japan.

He introduced the Church Welfare Program and started the DI.


President Joseph F. Smith.

He was the 10th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

When he was a baby, he almost died when a gang threw a mattress on top of him as they robbed his families house.

When he was 8 years old, he crossed the plains with his mother in a covered wagon.  

He served a mission in Hawaii.

He started the Family Home Evening Program and the Children's Friend. 


President Joseph Fielding Smith

He was the 10th President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Favorite song, “Prayer is the Soul’s Sincere Desire”

Favorite food: sweet pickles; 

Favorite quotation, ‘Wickedness never was happiness” (Alma 41:10).

He invited all to come unto Christ.

He said “There is no cure for the ills of the world except the gospel of Jesus Christ…The Lord Loves you.  He wants youth receive the full blessings of the gospel.”

He was direct in his teaching of adherence to gospel principles, and yet he was particularly tender in his attitude toward those who fell short.



 

The Guide by Robert Marcum


A number of years ago a young man who is an excellent skier went with friends to the wilds of the Yukon to experience the ultimate in deep-powder skiing. A helicopter took them high into the mountains, far away from safety, ski patrols, and hospitals. They were virtually hundreds of miles from anywhere with nothing but 8,000 feet of vertical drop before them. Their guide was a 70-year-old man, small and seemingly fragile. He told them to stay directly behind him and he would get them down safely, but if they veered off to the right or left, chances were they would fall into a crevice or onto the sharp rocks at the bottom of unseen cliffs.


Suddenly my friend realized that his life was in the hands of this old gentleman whom he hardly knew and who certainly didn’t look like a man who could ski long miles through heavy powder to safety. The young man felt his stomach knot up. But suddenly the old man dropped over the edge, and one by one his friends followed. There was no other way down, and he quickly forced his muscles to move him over the edge and onto the path of the guide now moving quickly away from him.


The descent was awesome. His doubts about the guide were dispelled as he followed a path that led him past sheer cliffs he would not have seen until it was too late. As he noticed these death traps out of the corners of his eyes, he clung even more desperately to the path his guide was making some distance in front of him.


His confidence in the old gentleman was complete when he suddenly stopped them from crossing a seemingly wide-open snowfield. It looked like some of the finest powder he had ever seen, but his first impulse to reject his guide’s words was replaced by the realization that his guide had brought him this far in safety and now was no time to stop trusting him. So he followed as they labored through heavy snow to climb up and around the snowfield, finally arriving below it. Stopping, they turned and looked behind them. What they saw made him take a deep breath. The snowfield wasn’t a snowfield at all, but a crevice several hundred feet deep with a snow bridge two or three feet thick. Had they attempted to cross it they would have surely broken through and plummeted to their deaths on the jagged rocks and ice below.


By the time they had reached the bottom, my friend was humbled by the ability of his “fragile” guide. Through years of preparation, the guide had gained a knowledge that went much deeper than the eye could see. His life was dedicated to keeping people like my friend from serious harm. Over the next few days they would ski some of the most beautiful country in the world, dangerous country with disaster hidden in its deep snow. But their guide was ever vigilant in protecting them, and they were able to relax and really enjoy the marvelous, once-in-a-lifetime experience.


Following the prophet is not much different. Although somewhat older than most of us, his experience, knowledge, and, most importantly, his ability to be directed by the Lord, will lead us safely to our destinations. But we must trust him and follow him very carefully. It is only when we decide that we have a better way that we endanger our spiritual lives. Believe in him, and remember, God chose him. He is the prophet and God will direct and advise him. A safer course cannot be found.