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January 8, 2023

Young Women Lesson on Bearing our Testimonies

 Lesson on Testimony 


1. Game: What am I? 

THIS, accompanied by the Spirit, is one of the more powerful teaching tools we have. 


THIS DOES NOT burst upon us suddenly. Rather it grows, as Alma said, from a seed of FAITH


THIS is a spiritual witness given by the Holy Ghost.


Some people speak of THIS as if it were a light switch-it's either on or off; you either have IT , or you do not. In reality, THIS is more like a tree that passes through various stages of growth and development. Elder Creig C. Christensen


"Knowing that the gospel is true is the essence of THIS. Consistently being true to the gospel is the essence of conversion.

David A. Bednar


Bearing THIS is foundational to our faith. 


2. Our lesson today is on TESTIMONY


JOURNAL: write your testimony  

JOURNAL: turn page and write the date and TESTIMONY at the top.


A few months ago,I gave a lesson about testimonies.  We talked about ways we can testimony to our friends. We ended that lesson with a quote that says “Bear your testimony everyday of your life and when necessary use words.” Today we are going to talk about the USE WORDS part. 


2 Nephi 25:26

26 And we talk of Christ, we rejoice in Christ, we preach of Christ, we prophesy of Christ, and we write according to our prophecies, that our children may know to what source they may look for a remission of their sins


ASK: How many of you are comfortable walking up to the pulpit to bear your testimony?  


Today we are going to SIMPLIFY that tasks.


3. THREE TIPS


Keep it simple.

A testimony is made up of simple statements of truth; pure testimony does not involve entertaining the congregation with humor, giving a "travel log," or sharing a talk-like sermon. 


We are studying the NEW TESTAMENT this year and I love that in the first chapter in LUKE, MARY bears her testimony. 


Luke 1:46-47, 49 

46 And Mary said, My soul doth magnify the Lord,

47 And my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour

49 For he that is mighty hath done to me great things; and holy is his name.

Elder Scott: "Share principles that help those you love to press forward along the path to eternal life. Remember, we all grow line upon line. You have followed that same pattern in your understanding of the gospel. Keep your sharing of the gospel simple”.



Use “I KNOW" Statements.

A testimony is most simply and most powerfully shared in "I know" statements. 


As President Ballard explains; “My experience throughout the Church leads me to worry that too many of our members’ testimonies linger on 'I am thankful' and 'I love,' and too few are able to say with humble but sincere clarity, 'I know.’"


We can have testimonies of every aspect of the gospel, from tithing to Sunday School to reading the scriptures. However, as Elder Uchtdorf shared; “A testimony of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ will always include these clear and simple truths:

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    • God lives. He is our loving Father in Heaven, and we are His children.

    • Jesus Christ is the Son of the living God and the Savior of the world.

    • Joseph Smith is the prophet of God through whom the gospel of Jesus Christ was restored in the latter days. President [Russell M. Nelson], his counselors, and the members of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles are the prophets, seers, and revelators in our day

  • The Book of Mormon is the word of God.
  • Holy Ghost

No matter what we're bearing testimony of, the truth of the Church and all its teachings are rooted in these five points of doctrine. Sharing our testimonies along with the foundational truths they are based on, will increase the power of our words. 


Bear Testimony Often.

Whether someone's testimony is deeply rooted or just starting to grow, bearing testimony strengthens it. 


President Packer declared; “Oh, if I could teach you this one principle: a testimony is to be found in the bearing of it!” 


The most critical thing we can do to strengthen our testimonies and to share it more powerfully is to bear it—often! Share it not just in sacrament meeting, but also at home and with friends, online or in person. Share it in whatever words come. Share it knowing that the spirit will testify of truth to the hearts of those listening. And that, in the end, is really what will make your testimony powerful. 



CONCLUSION:


“You may sometimes be tempted to say ‘Will my influence make any difference?  I am just one.  Will my service affect the work that dramatically? I testify to you that it will.  You will never be able to measure your influence for good.” President Thomas S Monson


Chris & Reita Story "It was like pulling teeth to get Dawn to talk about her religion."


"Those who have a testimony of the restored gospel also have a duty to share it. Dallin H. Oaks

JOURNAL: if time - re-write your testimony

July 10, 2022

Young Women's Lesson on Prophets

Prophets


Intro: Relay Service/Prophet

Example of relay service... deaf person calling a hearing... 

compare to how Heavenly Father, tells Prophet, Prophet tells us.

        Emphasize that it is Heavenly Father's message to his children told through the prophet.


I. Scripture D&C 1:38

D&C 1:38 

“Whether by mine own voice or the voice of my servant, it is the same.”


II. Scripture Story: King Benjamin

Mosiah 1-2


Apply King Benjamin to us today.  

Heavenly Father tells our prophet what he wants us to know and then our prophet tells us.  

                Our prophets tell us in special meetings like General Conference.  

                Sometimes we aren't able to actually hear the prophet, so it is written down and delivered to our homes. 


III. Why is it Important to Listen to our Prophets? 

Maze Analogy


Imagine you are in a maze that is made up of tall hedges.  The bushes are too thick to see through, too tall to see over, and you can’t tell whether you are headed towards a dead-end until you are right there. 

You start off knowing the approximate direction of where the exit is, but quickly lose your bearings and can’t do anything more that wander aimlessly until you find the correct path out.  Then you notice a little look- out tower.


You climb the tower and you can regain your bearings again and plot a path to exit.  


Apply the Maze to REAL LIFE.  

Life is similar to being in a maze.  It is easy to get caught up in the “maze of life” and focus only on that is right in front of us.  


What are some concerns that are in YOUR maze of life? 

friends, peer pressure, grades, temptations, rules, etc


There is someone we can look to who has been given the keys to be the “look-out” for our day and time.  They have the perspective of being able to see all the twists and turns in the maze and give us guidance and direction that will help us reach the finish line safely. 



IV. Different Modern Prophets

Pictures of Prophets covering picture of Christ.

        Groups of three

            1. scribe -write prophets name and guiding principle on the chalkboard

            2. share a fun fact or tidbit about that prophet

            3. share that prophet's "guiding principle" and how we can apply it to our lives today


Conclusion: TESTIMONY

My witness of Joseph Smith and Russel M Nelson

 

Although we hear the Prophets voice it is Heavenly Father's message. I know as we listen to our prophet that we will know what our Heavenly Father wants us to do.  We will find the answers we are looking for and our testimonies of the gospel and of the Savior will grow.





President Gordon B Hinckley

He was the 15th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

He has a great love and concern for all people .

Favorite hymn, “God of Our Fathers, Known of Old”; 

Favorite dessert, pie and ice cream.

Favorite quotation: ‘And now, after the many testimonies which have been given of him, this is the testimony, last of all, which we give of him: That he lives! For we saw him, even on the right hand of God; and we heard the voice bearing record that he is the Only Begotten of the Father” (Doctrine and Covenants 76:22-23).

He has traveled all over the world to meet with the Saints and to tell them that God “will shower down blessings upon those who walk in obedience to His commandments.” He has dedicated more temples than any other General Authority. 

Each Thursday morning the members of the First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles have a meeting in the Salt Lake Temple, they are driven in carts underground from the Church Office parking lot to the temple. During the cold winter months, President Hinckley always wore a coat and a hat during the brief ride. As his cart passed under Main Street, President Hinckley knew that when he was within the confines of the temple, rather than under the street and, without a word, would remove his hat and place it in his lap. He seemed to know instinctively when that moment arrived. It was such a simple yet profound expression of reverence and respect for the House of the Lord.

His guiding principle taught: DO YOUR BEST


President Thomas S. Monson

He was the 16th President of the Church

Favorite song: O Divine Redeemer

Favorite food: Turkey dinners, pies, any flavor of ice cream, chocolate 

He served in the United States Navy near the close of World War II. 

Hobbies – Raising pigeons, fishing 

Occupation – Publishing and printing 

As a teenager, he rescued a girl from drowning while swimming in the Provo River.

Can wiggle his ears.

President Monson often took the time to do small acts of service, such as visiting the gravesite of a missionary, and caring for the sick and the lonely, serving the widow and the fatherless, the poor and the oppressed.”

President Monson changed the minimum age for young men to serve LDS missions was being lowered from 19 to 18, and for young women from 21 to 19. 

He encouraging church members to be "a little kinder and more thoughtful."


President David O. McKay

He was the 9th President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

Favorite song, “O Say, What is Truth?”;

Favorite food, Cummings chocolates

Favorite expression, “True Christianity is love in action.”

He encouraged missionary work when he said; “EVERY MEMBER A MISSIONARY”.

He taught the importance of family and home by saying that having a righteous family is the best success we can have in this life. 


President Lorenzo Snow

He was the 5th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

He loved to learn.

He had many illnesses and almost drowned during a storm near Hawaii.

One time, when he was in a special room in the Salt Lake Temple, he prayed to know how to lead the Church.

“When he finished praying, he thought he would hear a voice, or have a warm feeling, or something would happen.  He waited and waited.  He left the room disappointed.

When he turned the corner into the hall, he saw Jesus standing about three feet about the floor.  He looked as though he was standing on a plate of gold.  He was wearing beautiful white robes, and his face, body and robes were so bright that it was hard to look at him.

Jesus gave Lorenzo Snow many instructions and then left.”

He taught the saints to pay their tithing and that if they did the Lord would bless them with all they needed.


President Spencer W. Kimball 

He was the 12th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Favorite song, “I Need Thee Every Hour,” 

Favorite food, date-nut bread crumbled into a glass of milk; 

Favorite quotation or a lesson from him, “Lengthen your stride.”

On his dest was a plaque with he motto “DO IT”

Under his direction, temples were build in many areas of the world. 

President Monson one time noticed one of President Kimball’s shoes had a large hole in it and said to the prophet’s secretary, Arthur Haycock, “You can’t let the President wear those shoes.” Brother Haycock said that he frequently hid those shoes, but President Kimball searched for and found that particular pair most of the time.

“President Kimball was known for his statement, ‘My life is like my shoes — to be worn out in the service of the Lord.’


President George Albert Smith

He was the 8th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

When he was young he was very poor and had to work very hard.

Favorite song: Let Us Oft Speak Kind Words

Favorite food: apple pie with a little warm milk on it; 

He helped people after WWII, who needed food and supplies.

“Starvation was rampant in Germany and in other nations of Europe. President Smith met with United States President Harry Truman and said, ‘We’d like to send welfare supplies to the starving people of Europe, but the bureaucracy and the red tape in postwar Europe are keeping us from doing so.’

President Truman heard his plea and opened the way. He asked, ‘How many months will it take for you to assemble your supplies?’

President Smith replied, ‘President Truman, they’re already assembled. All you need do is say go, and they’ll be rolling within 24 hours.’ Lives were saved as a result.” 

He was known as a peacemaker and for his compassion

He developed a creed that was a guide for his life: “I would be a friend to the friendless…I would not be an enemy to any living soul”


President Harold B Lee

He was the 11th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Favorite song, “Praise to the Man”; 

Favorite food, bread and milk; 

Favorite quotation, “Stand ye in holy places, and be not moved” (D&C 87:8).

He told the saints to hold Family Home Evening, teach their children and protect them from the temptations of the world.

He encourages the saints to be in tune with and to be responsive to the whisperings of the Holy Spirit.


President Ezra Taft Benson

He was the 13th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

He was the oldest brother of 11 kids.  

He graduated from BYU

He was the only President of the Church to have received the honor of ‘Most Preferred Man’ at BYU when he was a student there

Favorite song, “How Great Thou Art”; 

Favorite food, fresh raspberries; 

Favorite quotation: “What manner of men ought ye to be? Verily I say unto you, even as I am” (3 Nephi 27:27).

He served as  United States Secretary of Agriculture.

He loved the Book of Mormon and encouraged us all to study the Book of Mormon.


President Howard W Hunter

He was the 14th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Favorite hymn, “Have I Done Any Good in the World Today?”; 

Favorite food, Alaskan crab; 

Favorite scripture, “Let another man praise thee … and not thine own lips” (Proverbs 27:2).

He encouraged each member to live worthy to receive the blessings of the temple.

He told us to follow the example of Jesus Christ and to “treat each other with more kindness, more patience, more courtesy, and forgiveness.”

Guiding Principle:encouraging those who had strayed from the gospel to COME BACK


President John Taylor

He was the 3rd president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

He learned to make furniture.

He didn't get baptized until he was 28 years old.

He was known for defending the church and especially Joseph Smith.

He was with Joseph Smith,  in Carthage Jail, when Joseph Smith was killed.  He was shot also, but he was  wearing a jacket and in the pocket of his jacket was a watch.  The bullet hit the watch and saved President John Taylor life.


President Heber J. Grant

He was the 7th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

His dad died when he was only 5 days old.

When he was young he wanted to play baseball, but wasn't very good at throwing the ball.  The other boys would laugh at him and call him a sissy.  He shined people shoes to earn a dollar.  He bought a baseball and practiced throwing until his arm would hurt.  He ended up playing on a baseball team that won the Championship in 3 different states.

He was the first mission president in Japan.

He introduced the Church Welfare Program and started the DI.


President Joseph F. Smith.

He was the 10th president of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

When he was a baby, he almost died when a gang threw a mattress on top of him as they robbed his families house.

When he was 8 years old, he crossed the plains with his mother in a covered wagon.  

He served a mission in Hawaii.

He started the Family Home Evening Program and the Children's Friend. 


President Joseph Fielding Smith

He was the 10th President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Favorite song, “Prayer is the Soul’s Sincere Desire”

Favorite food: sweet pickles; 

Favorite quotation, ‘Wickedness never was happiness” (Alma 41:10).

He invited all to come unto Christ.

He said “There is no cure for the ills of the world except the gospel of Jesus Christ…The Lord Loves you.  He wants youth receive the full blessings of the gospel.”

He was direct in his teaching of adherence to gospel principles, and yet he was particularly tender in his attitude toward those who fell short.



 

The Guide by Robert Marcum


A number of years ago a young man who is an excellent skier went with friends to the wilds of the Yukon to experience the ultimate in deep-powder skiing. A helicopter took them high into the mountains, far away from safety, ski patrols, and hospitals. They were virtually hundreds of miles from anywhere with nothing but 8,000 feet of vertical drop before them. Their guide was a 70-year-old man, small and seemingly fragile. He told them to stay directly behind him and he would get them down safely, but if they veered off to the right or left, chances were they would fall into a crevice or onto the sharp rocks at the bottom of unseen cliffs.


Suddenly my friend realized that his life was in the hands of this old gentleman whom he hardly knew and who certainly didn’t look like a man who could ski long miles through heavy powder to safety. The young man felt his stomach knot up. But suddenly the old man dropped over the edge, and one by one his friends followed. There was no other way down, and he quickly forced his muscles to move him over the edge and onto the path of the guide now moving quickly away from him.


The descent was awesome. His doubts about the guide were dispelled as he followed a path that led him past sheer cliffs he would not have seen until it was too late. As he noticed these death traps out of the corners of his eyes, he clung even more desperately to the path his guide was making some distance in front of him.


His confidence in the old gentleman was complete when he suddenly stopped them from crossing a seemingly wide-open snowfield. It looked like some of the finest powder he had ever seen, but his first impulse to reject his guide’s words was replaced by the realization that his guide had brought him this far in safety and now was no time to stop trusting him. So he followed as they labored through heavy snow to climb up and around the snowfield, finally arriving below it. Stopping, they turned and looked behind them. What they saw made him take a deep breath. The snowfield wasn’t a snowfield at all, but a crevice several hundred feet deep with a snow bridge two or three feet thick. Had they attempted to cross it they would have surely broken through and plummeted to their deaths on the jagged rocks and ice below.


By the time they had reached the bottom, my friend was humbled by the ability of his “fragile” guide. Through years of preparation, the guide had gained a knowledge that went much deeper than the eye could see. His life was dedicated to keeping people like my friend from serious harm. Over the next few days they would ski some of the most beautiful country in the world, dangerous country with disaster hidden in its deep snow. But their guide was ever vigilant in protecting them, and they were able to relax and really enjoy the marvelous, once-in-a-lifetime experience.


Following the prophet is not much different. Although somewhat older than most of us, his experience, knowledge, and, most importantly, his ability to be directed by the Lord, will lead us safely to our destinations. But we must trust him and follow him very carefully. It is only when we decide that we have a better way that we endanger our spiritual lives. Believe in him, and remember, God chose him. He is the prophet and God will direct and advise him. A safer course cannot be found.

 

January 9, 2022

Young Women New Years Lesson

 New Years Young Women Lesson


Intro:  What Am I?


I am unused, unspotted, without blemish.

I will present each day for you to place upon it your imprint.

It remains for you to make of me what you will;

Each hour of the 365 days, I will give you 60 minutes

It is up to you to fill them.

I am the New Year.

Make me your best. 



I. Reflections on the New Year by Lloyd Newell 

(the Spoken Word January 1995)


In Roman mythology Janus is the god of beginnings.  He is responsible for the new year.  He holds sacred the first hour of the day, the first day of the month, and the first month of the year - January - which bears his name. He’s represented with two heads set back to back - one looking at the past and the other looking ahead to the future. Janus is a model of reflection and renewing. 

Many people set aside sometime every January to reflect and make written lists.  RESOLUTIONS. They ask themselves questions like: “What have I learned?” and “What will I do differently?”


II. Words of Wisdom 


When making these list, we tend to pause a minute look to the past and learn.  We learn from our mistakes and recognize the blessings.  We also take time to realize how far we have come.  Then we don’t linger looking back.  We look to the future, excited, energized, and ready to live. 


I love how we can find words of encouragement everywhere now days. Let’s look at some.   Can you recognize who said it and what is their simple message? 


Master Oogway: “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today is a gift... that's why they call it present”.


Yoda: “Do or do not. There is no try.” 


Gusteau in Ratatouille

“If you focus on what you left behind, you will never be able to see what lies ahead.”


Quasimodo in The Hunchback of Notre Dame

“Today is a good day to try.”


Shuri in Black Panther

“How many times do I have to teach you: just because something works doesn’t mean it can’t be improved.”


Dumbledore in Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets

“It is not our abilities that show what we truly are … it is our choices.”


Mary Poppins in Mary Poppins Returns

“Everything is possible, even the impossible.”

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President Gordon B Hinckley:

“Simply do what you can do, in the best way you know how, and the Lord will accept your effort.”


President Thomas S. Monson:

“May we remember theses ABC’s as we begin our journey in to the new year, cultivate a positive ATTITUDE, a BELIEF that we an achieve our goals and resolutions, and the COURAGE to face whatever challenges my come our way.  Then the abundant life will be ours.” 


I love that we have a prophet on the earth today that can guide us during these crazy times.  Recently, President Nelson offered some suggestions for our list of Resolutions. 



III. President Russel M. Nelson’s NY Challenge


I’m sure many of you are setting aside time today to write down your resolutions for the coming year. May I make a few suggestions?


First, resolve to strengthen your spiritual foundation. This may involve setting a specific time and place to study the scriptures, praying more often, making temple worship a bigger priority, and letting God prevail in all aspects of your life.


Second, resolve to be kind to others. When the Savior Jesus Christ visited the Americas, as recorded in the Book of Mormon, one of the first things He taught was the need to eliminate contention in our lives. So, please be compassionate, be understanding, be slow to judge, and be quick to forgive.


Third, resolve to be resolute. The Lord loves effort. The Lord loves consistency. The Lord loves steadfastness. While we surely will come up short from time to time, our persistent efforts to hear Him and follow the inspiration He gives us will help us to “wax strong in the Spirit” (Mosiah 18:26).


May God bless you, my dear friends, and may this be a wonderful year of purpose and possibilities for all of us.




IV. New Girls/Love One Another


When Christ gathered his disciples for the last supper, he was preparing them for a new chapter.  He began to wash their feet and then gave them a new commandment.  


John 13:34 

A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.


I love that some of Christ last words to his disciples before he died was about Loving One Another. 


We have an amazing group of young women.  We have SIX brand new girls who have joined our group.  In all, we have 28 beautiful young ladies.  I want to challenge you - as a new years resolution to all to be ONE!


In Mosiah 18, Alma is preaching and in verse 21, he commanded them that …"they should look forward with one eye, having … their hearts knit together in unity and in love one towards another." 

What are some things we can do so become ONE or to have UNITY in our Young Women’s?


Unity is a spiritual quality.  It’s the sweet feelings of peace and purpose that come from belonging.…It’s wanting the best for others as much as you want it for yourself.… It’s knowing that no one is out to harm you.  It means you will never be lonely."  

Mary N.Cook, "Remember Kindness Begins With Me", April 2011 General YW Conference

 

Each of you have your own special way of showing someone that you care, that is part of your INDIVIDUAL WORTH.  Your differences is what makes a group of young women working together so powerful and successful in following the Savior’s example; to love one another!


In order to become one - we need to get to know each other better. 



V. Dutch Present



Conclusion:

Before we open this gift, I hope you will accept my challenge to become ONE with these girls sitting next to you. 


Look out for each other

Pray for each other

Serve one another 

Love one another.  


In this gift is something for each of you to wear.  I hope you will wear them and know that 27 other girls are possibly wearing theirs too. 


This little item has the same in purpose but LIKE each of YOU- they are also a little different.  


I have a strong testimony that we have a living Prophet on the earth today that speaks with God daily.  I know he is here to guide us and protect us.  And if we listen to his words we will receive the blessings we need to get through these tough times.  


President Nelson has encouraged us to:

1. strengthen your spiritual foundation - PRAY 

2. to be kind to others and avoid contention - PEACE

3. to show effort - SERVE

As we CHOOSE your gift, decide which one of President Nelson’s suggestions YOU want to focus on. 

September 12, 2021

Lesson - Faith In Adversity

 Young Women Lesson 




How Can WE Face Adversity with Faith?

Sept. 12, 2021

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Intro: Video Neil L Anderson talk WOUNDED

Watch first 3 minutes of talk.


On March 22, 2016, just before eight o’clock in the morning, two terrorist bombs exploded in the Brussels Airport. Elder Richard Norby, Elder Mason Wells, and Elder Joseph Empey had taken Sister Fanny Clain to the airport for a flight to her mission in Cleveland, Ohio. Thirty-two people lost their lives, and all of the missionaries were wounded. The most seriously wounded was Elder Richard Norby, age 66, serving with his wife, Sister Pam Norby.

Elder Norby reflected on that moment:  “Instantly, I knew what had happened.

“I tried to run for safety, but I immediately fell down. … I could see that my left leg was badly injured. I [noticed] black, almost spiderweb-type, soot drooping from both hands. I gently pulled at it, but realized it was not soot but my skin that had been burned. My white shirt was turning red from an injury on my back.  “As the consciousness of what had just happened filled my mind, I [had] this very strong thought: … the Savior knew where I was, what had just transpired, and [what] I was experiencing at that moment.”

There were difficult days ahead for Richard Norby and for his wife, Pam. He was placed in an induced coma, followed by surgeries, infections, and great uncertainty.Richard Norby lived, but his life would never be the same. Two and a half years later, his wounds are still healing; a brace replaces the missing part of his leg; each step is different than before that moment at the Brussels Airport.

Why would this happen to Richard and Pam Norby?2 They had been true to their covenants, served a previous mission in the Ivory Coast, and raised a wonderful family. Someone could understandably say, “It isn’t fair! It just isn’t right! They were giving their lives for the gospel of Jesus Christ; how could this happen?”

Although the details will differ, the tragedies, the unanticipated tests and trials, both physical and spiritual, come to each of us because this is mortality.



  1. Illustrate Scripture on the Board

Matthew 5:45 (Jesus Christ speaking - Sermon on the Mount)

45 That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.


Illustrate this scripture on the board, sentence by sentence

Set it up to add the sand and rock for Primary song

Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin spoke in General Conference. In his talk he says,

"You may feel singled out when adversity enters your life. You shake your head and wonder, “Why me?” But the dial on the wheel of sorrow eventually points to each of us. At one time or another, everyone must experience sorrow. No one is exempt.”



II. Don’t Compare - all challenges are hard

Miscarriage story TRACI: 

Complaining to my friend Traci at work.  Crying and on a pity party. I remembered that she had lost a little boy. I immediately felt dumb. My “storm” was so much smaller than hers. My friend taught me a very valuable lesson that day.  She said, 


“Every challenge is hard.  Heavenly Father knows just what we need and what we can handle.  He also knows what will refine us and change us for the better.  So, even though our challenges are different, the heartache, the frustration, the fear, the anger, the sadness, are all felt the same.”


Pass Paper

Write down a challenge or a “storm” in your life that you have endured.   



III. What are you Learning? 

Miscarriage Story GLORIA: 

During this time when I was devastated about this miscarriage, I was talking to my neighbor Gloria.  She like Traci listened to me cry and complain.  At the end of my pity party, she validated my feelings and then she asked me a question that I will never forget.  She asked;


“What are you learning?” 


I wasn’t ready to learn yet, but it got me on the right path. 


Paper

  Write down what you learned from that challenge?



IV. Personal Experiences

Personal Experiences:

I have asked a Delaney Dolphin and Kris Maxfield to share their personal experiences with trials and what they learned from them.



V. Scriptures Answers WHY

Ask: WHY do bad things happen to good people? 


Using the scriptures, lets answers that question

Doctrine and Covenants 29:39 

(Joseph Smith received this revelation just before a conference)

39 And it must needs be that the devil should tempt the children of men, or they could not be agents unto themselves; for if they never should have bitter they could not know the sweet


2 Nephi 2:11

(Lehi is speaking to Jacob about free agency)

11 For it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things. If not so, my firstborn in the wilderness, righteousness could not be brought to pass, neither wickedness, neither holiness nor misery, neither good nor bad. Wherefore, all things must needs be a compound in one; wherefore, if it should be one body it must needs remain as dead, having no life neither death, nor corruption nor incorruption, happiness nor misery, neither sense nor insensibility.


Doctrine and Covenants 122:7

(Joseph Smith receives this comfort while imprisoned in Liberty Jail)

7 And if thou shouldst be cast into the pit, or into the hands of murderers, and the sentence of death passed upon thee; if thou be cast into the deep; if the billowing surge conspire against thee; if fierce winds become thine enemy; if the heavens gather blackness, and all the elements combine to hedge up the way; and above all, if the very jaws of hell shall gape open the mouth wide after thee, know thou, my son, that all these things shall give thee experience, and shall be for thy good.


VII. Answer HOW do we endure these storms. 


                Doctrine & Covenants 121: 7-8

“My son, peace be unto thy soul; thine adversity and thine afflictions shall be but a small moment; “And then, if thou endure it well, God shall exalt thee on high; thou shalt triumph over all thy foes.”

Using our primary song, answers the second question: HOW?

How do we “endure it well”? Strong foundation

Add Sand and Rock to Illustrate the scripture/primary song

                But BOTH got the STORM!


1. Pray for strength 

2. Repent to be worthy of the Comforter

(John 14:18 I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.)

3. Go to the Temple

4. Study your Scriptures

5. Have Faith

6. Serve others - 

(President Hinckley: “Forget yourself and go to work.” ) 

7. Remember who you are 

(Neil L Anderson: Look backward, remembering that you proved your worthiness in your premortal state. You are a valiant child of God, and with His help, you can triumph in the battles of this fallen world. You have done it before, and you can do it again.)

MOST IMPORTANT PART OF THE LESSON!!!

            8. Depend on your Savior - allow Him to CARRY you 

Doctrine and Covenants 98:1 LET

1 Verily I say unto you my friends, fear not, let your hearts be comforted; yea, rejoice evermore, and in everything give thanks;


VIII. Personal Story: Losing my mom 

My mom passed away over 13 years ago this year.  She was 58 years old.  I was 35. From the day she was diagnosed with Melanoma to the day she died was only 3 months.  I can still remember those three months as if they happened yesterday. 

I remember pleading my case with Heavenly Father and begging Him not to take her from us.  I made all sorts of “deals” and promises. We fasted and prayed for a miracle.  

I knew it was going to be hard, but I don’t think I realized how hard it was going to be.  Somedays, I feel this trial will never end.  Although its been 13 years, there are days I miss her so much its paralyzing.  


A dear friend, Betsy Clayton gave me with a gift after my mom died.  It is one I cherish.  It is exactly what I needed.  It has been a reminder to me many times since my mom's passing 

 

Plaque: 

Sometimes God calms the storms.  

Sometimes he lets the storm rage and calms the child”


Conclusion: 

Testify: Always depend on your Savior.  Although he won't calm the storm, he WILL calm and comfort you. LET Him.


Put frames together with paper with trials on the back.

Velum paper over cute paper in frame.